Many people are burnt out from dating and trying to meet their dream of their life. Every person wants to find the right partner who will provide love and trust in the relationship. Where should one go to find their life long partner? in a bar? at a movie? or on the beach?
No. Go to Shul or to a Jewish function where people are doing good deeds for the community. If you want to be sure that your marriage will last, you must invest in the heavy duty glue. The strongest bond that we can adopt, is Almighty G-d. When you include G-d into your life, He will guarantee you the stability you need for your marriage.
Many people were married and divorced and are scared to make a life time commitment to a new person. There are many challenges that stand in the way and they pose legitimate excuses, not to move forward with this commitment. It is much more serious than a merger of two major companies. We see how thousands of sweetheart couples come to court, fighting each other like the biggest enemies.
Without having G-d as your partner you will fail in marriage. Every person is different from another.Man and woman are opposites. How do we have the guts to make these partnerships work? by reaching to the essence of each person. The underlying inner power that we all share, is G-d's holy gift to us, the Neshama, G-dly soul.
When we look to the Torah as our standard we will have a solid foundation for a life long bond. The single men and woman must become more focused on Torah values. This will sensitize their outlook of a potential soul mate. When two people meet they should focus on how they can enhance their meeting to please G-d. This approach will compel us to accept the Torah's standard as our GPS to life's issues.
We all must pray very intensely to find the right partner for life. When almighty G-d will see your sincerity for a serious soul mate, He will deliver to you this tremendous gift. Remember not to abuse it.
Keep the commandments of the Torah. respect each other, and remember that we all carry a part of G-d in our souls. In order to receive G-d's blessings for a successful marriage, we must be humble and willing to accept each other unconditionally, just as G-d accepts us unconditionally. We all have flaws,we must look at the values of our spouses. Our society is very quick to break up married couples. People are not willing to make more sacrifices to make their marriages work.
They think the grass is greener on the other side. It is always recommendable to give your maximum effort to strengthen your present relationship. People should never divorce before discussing the matter with a ordained orthodox rabbi. The Midrash tell us that Almighty G-d dwells where there is peacefulness and love to each other. It is not difficult to be loving and caring to your spouse. When you display happiness to your partner you will receive mush more in return. What goes around comes around.
If you want people to be nice to you, don't be nasty to others, including your spouse.
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